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A recent New York Times article about the persuasive power of mimicry cited the example of legendary auto-parts salesman Veldon Smith. Smith did much more than simply laugh when his prospect laughed. “I would learn as much as possible about a client before I visited, what their problem was, what they were worried about,” he told the paper. “Then I would go in with a story about myself being in the same predicament. So when I walked in, I was in exactly the same frame of mind as the customer. I was immediately on the same wavelength. Everything else kind of flowed out of that.”

GET FIRMTough Times

At February’s Centurion Show in Tucson, AZ, Doug Bradstreet, the fine watch and jewelry buyer for the Wynn Las Vegas outlined the demands he makes on his suppliers: “A partnership is a partnership … [but] one non-negotiable I have is regarding trade-outs. I’m a new store, but if I have product that is not exciting to our customers, I insist the vendors take it back.”

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It’s anniversary season and you need a new line to breathe fresh life into your presentation when you’re romancing a purchase. Sales trainer Dave Richardson suggests you jettison “What does she like?” and instead try asking: 1. What have you surprised her with in the past? 2. What was her response? 3. How did that make you feel? With such a line of inquiry, you’ve skillfully transported the customer to the past as he relives those magical moments in his mind.

SEND THEM AWAYAnniversary Starter

Maxwell Ohnezeit, manager of David Fairclough Fine Jewelers, Toledo, OH, remembers his impove-rished first anniversary: eating thawed cake and watching his wedding video with his wife. “I would have much rather spent it on the beach,” he says. For that reason he’s working with a local travel agent on a promotion that will send one lucky couple on a second honeymoon for their first anniversary.



Everyone who has walked the aisles of JCK Vegas knows that feeling when your energy sags and your mind turns to the nearest coffee station. Michael Tesler of Retail Concepts says you should take notice of these spells of fatigue. They’re often indicators that the merchandise you’re browsing simply doesn’t excite you. In contrast, you’ll feel energized when you see something that engages you. “If you are excited, there’s a good chance your customers will be too,” he says.



She Wanted to Spend More Time with Her Kids. She Called Wilkerson.

Your children are precious. More precious than gold? Absolutely! Just ask Lesley Ann Davis, owner of Lesley Ann Jewels, an independent jewelry store that — until the end of 2023 — had quite a following in Houston, Texas. To spend more time with her four sons, all in high school, she decided to close her store. Luckily, she was familiar with Wilkerson and called them as soon as she knew she wanted to move on to bigger, better and more family-focused things. Was she happy with her decision? Yes, she was. Says Davis, “Any owner looking to make that life change, looking to retire, looking to close, looking for a pause in their career, I would recommend Wilkerson. Hands down!”

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