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Shane Decker

This Common Word is Not Rejection, It’s Just an Objection

Find out why they said no and close the sale.




I HEAR THIS all the time. Salespeople and managers say the reason they didn’t close is because sometimes they don’t like the feeling of being rejected.

First of all, that’s not where rejection happens — it does not happen at the close. It happens when you’re standing in the sweet spot and the clients come in. You speak to them, acknowledge them with a great smile, and they walk right past, saying nothing in return. Or a grumpy old butt comes in and gives you a crappy look back and says, “I’m just looking.” That’s rejection!

The client who walked by you was probably on the way to the case where you write up repairs and maybe she didn’t mean to be rude; she was just on a mission. In either case, give that client 20 or 30 seconds and tell another sales associate what happened so someone else can do a re-approach.

When you’ve been working with someone for 30 minutes or so and you’ve closed all the way through correctly, and you close at the end and the client says, “No,” she’s not rejecting you, she’s saying “no” to the item. Salespeople confuse this with rejection when it isn’t.

Your job as a professional salesperson is to find out why she said no. Pause two to three seconds. Sometimes, clients need a moment to think about it themselves. In fact, they really do know they want it. Remember, 60 to 70 percent of all shoppers cannot make up their own minds. Pausing allows you to think about your presentation to see if you left anything out. Sometimes after pausing, the client will say, “I’ll take it.”

After you’ve paused, say something like, “I thought this was the one you wanted.” Many times, the client will say, “It is, I just needed to think about it for a moment.” If it doesn’t close it, ask, “Do you have questions about this that I’ve not answered yet?” This smokes out any objections that are left.


Sometimes, they want another sales associate’s opinion about what they are looking at. So bring in someone else of the opposite gender, if possible and have him or her get on the same side of the case the client is on — to the right of the client. (Right’s positive; left’s negative.) Have the salesperson say, “Let me see this on you.” After the client’s tried it on, say “That’s lovely on you!” or “She’s gonna love wearing that.” (Practice doing this with each other before the clients come in.) A second opinion helps a lot in these situations.

Other times, we have accidentally pre-judged them. In this case, say “You’re wanting the bigger one, aren’t you?” This allows you to correct your presentation if you’ve undersold their expectations, which can be a sale-killer.

Finally, if all of this is not working, ask “Are you comfortable with the price?” If it’s too high, sell within their budget. But again, never allow no to be no. This is not rejection — it’s a one-word selling objection. Find out why they said no and close the sale.



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Alex and Gladys Rysman are the third generation to run Romm Jewelers in Brockton, Mass. And after many decades of service to the industry and their community, it was time to close the store and take advantage of some downtime. With three grown children who each had their own careers outside of the industry, they decided to call Wilkerson. Then, the Rysmans did what every jeweler should do: They called other retailers and asked about their own Wilkerson experience. “They all told us what a great experience it was and that’s what made us go with Wilkerson.” says Gladys Rysman. The results? Alex Rysman says he was impressed. “We exceeded whatever I expected to do by a large margin.”

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